WHY SUDDENLY LOVE



Love sometimes tend to appear as being pain and something that one cannot bear. It feels like a burden that you have to carry for the rest of your life, yet you are not sure that you are ready for the journey. It tends to make you feel small in your own little world, the world that you created and you where supposed to control and be in charge of, the world that you where hoping to use when you want to escape from reality. You might also feel like it is pulling you down instead of pulling you up and making you the strongest person that you personally know.

Most people in life live their lives trying to avoid falling in love. It might be a thing that in life man are actually afraid of being rejected, that is why in most cases they try to hide their feeling and keep them in their hearts instead of expressing them. While woman are actually afraid of heart break , and that is a reason that they are actually afraid of falling in love. As a result woman reject man to an extent that man are afraid to express their feelings. One thing humans should try to understand is that running away from love does not help, or solve personal issues you have with love.


Sometimes we as people should actually try to spend most of our time if not all of it seating down and trying to imagine our lives and how we personally would like them to look like. Ask yourself that if love did not challenge people or personally you how was it going to be like?

Love is a simple thing that involves emotions, feelings and a heart of a human being. Yet it a beautiful thing and the best experience of a life time, humans tend to put unnecessary
complications upon it. It gets complicated when more hearts than required get involved and when humans make it a controversy. It gets more complicated when one tries to use the mind instead of the heart to act upon it. It is something that you feel as it approaches you, sometimes you might think that it is up to you to decide whether you want it or not, not realising that  the decision is way above you(or out of you reach).

Never in you life question love, whether the feeling comes upon seeing a stranger or not. Try as a person to give love a chance and see how it feels and where it takes you. Love is a very strange which can even come out of the blue, and it does not mean that you should grab it all of the sudden and it does not mean that you should ignore it, just try to give it time as it is said love is patient.

IT IS A GOOD FEELING TO BE LOVED AND TO LOVE, TRY YOU BEST NOT TO RUIN IT WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE.



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